This is a pig that I met in New York.  She lived in the  children’s zoo in Central Park.

Right now I fell a little bit tired of London days, which I feel terrible about.  The Samuel Johnson quote about being tired of life rings through my ears whilst I type.  At the weekend I went to a city farm, had a picnic, saw a 3-d film, went through the docklands massive toytown on a toy train, saw some obscene and hilarious Japanese woodblack prints, watched Manhattan, kept the house clean and the animals happy, maybe even found a flat to live in next, cooked new recipes and sat in the sunshine.

Next week I will go to Bath and Brighton.  Perhaps that will shift things around.  Maybe I’ll go and see a different bit of town.  Maybe I’ll go on holiday.  Maybe I’ll learn to drive.

Here’s a London pig to round things off nicely.

later i looked up ‘finds’ in the dictionary.  it was much more satisfactory.  I like the serendipity of definition 1, i like the studiousness of 3 and i especially like ‘to experience or feel’.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/finds

1. To come upon, often by accident; meet with.
2. To come upon or discover by searching or making an effort: found the leak in the pipe.
3. To discover or ascertain through observation, experience, or study: found a solution; find the product of two numbers; found that it didn’t really matter.
4. 1. To perceive to be, after experience or consideration: found the gadget surprisingly useful; found the book entertaining.
   2. To experience or feel: found comfort in her smile.
   3. To bring (oneself) to an awareness of what one truly wishes to be and do in life.
   4. To perceive (oneself) to be in a specific place or condition: found herself at home that night; found himself drawn to the stranger.
5. To recover (something lost): found her keys.
6. To recover the use of; regain: found my voice and replied.
7. To succeed in reaching; arrive at: The dart found its mark.
8. To obtain or acquire by effort: found the money by economizing.
9. To decide on and make a declaration about: The jury deliberated and found a verdict of guilty. All the jurors found him guilty.
10. To furnish; supply.
11. 1. To bring (oneself) to an awareness of what one truly wishes to be and do in life.
    2. To perceive (oneself) to be in a specific place or condition: found herself at home that night; found himself drawn to the stranger.

(it’s the same photograph twice there, on account of mw not knowing how to put the picture once)

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it reminded me of david shrigley…  although i don’t adore his guardian columns, there certainly is a special corner of my heart devoted to this little picture:

http://www.davidshrigley.com/photo_htmpgs/lost_pidgeon.html

it is two Christmas Presents and two little books for me.  One I bought because I liked the name and thought it might be a little rude (and it was 1.99) and the other is the rather wonderful ‘Everyday Life Reader’ (edited by Ben Highmore) which I have come across a few times i the last few years and enjoyed on every occasion.

Oh dear, I bought the bookcase to hold all my books and now I am buying books to put on the new bookcase (as yet only in my mind).  I shall be over-run.

But yes, it is a lovely book and one I could (and will) spend hours in.  I do like books and libraries so.  Doing my degree has left me scarred in this way.  A stubborn, frugal and forgetful student, I lost two purses in quick succession.  Finding the first after losing the second was a mixed blessing, as I had replaced all my cards once.  So for two years I refused to pay the £10 fee and NEVER took any books out on it in case they realised it was invalid (aside from one I borrowed on Joel’s card).  So my studies were bound to the library, a fact which suited me well when the library was nearby and had so many useful books in.

Nowadays, libraries aren’t so easy.  The nearby ones do not have the mixed collections I need, the one that might be good is ever so noisy and a four-hour round trip away.  I think I read a good proportion of LSE’s museums collection last year.

Sometimes I find lovely new libraries, like the Paul Hamlyn library at the British Museum, which is about as gorgeous as any library could be.  Partly because (unlike Founder’s) rather wonderfully it is also open to everyone.  It’s so simple too, you just wonder in at sit at one of the 16 seats and either help yourself to the books on the shelves or fill out a card and the librarians fetch the book for you and deliver it to your desk.  The only distractions are the world’s treasures, as fine a distraction as anyone could wish for.

I keep a little list of libraries to visit.  Senate House library, LSE (again) and the British Library are the main three, though I am saving them up a little bit for Wintry Days To Come.  On those days I shall dress up as a knitted girl (wool tights and heavy skirt and jumper and a woolly hat and scarf and gloves) and I will travel with a notebook and a fountain pen and I will read and make notes and drink big cups of tea slowly.

By the by there was a series on BBC4 this month about children’s books.  It was ever so interesting to me, and it was extra interesting to see some of the people talking as I’d come across them before on library days, writing my dissertation on children’s reading, or my essay on children’s literature (or both).  I loved that topic of work and hopefully one day I can return to it.  I heard one of my friends is hoping to write a children’s book.  What a lovely job that would be.  But yes, in summary the recommendations today are the everyday life reader, the paul hamlyn library, and the BBC4 documentaries.

i thought that was Quite A Good Thought so i thought i’d share it.  It isn’t finished yet.

I have been re-reading Winnie-The-Pooh and do you know, the words feel so very familiar.

Today my hands are so cold that it is quite tricky to type.

Journeys I have taken recently: well, they would be a few relatively mundane ones on the train and the bus (yesterday I learned it was bad manners to read the paper over someone’s shoulder.  I learned it because a lady did a Very Big Frown at me).  At the weekend I journeyed in the most high-tech car I’ve known to go and celebrate the luke’s grandmother’s 90th…  90, can you imagine?  I certainly can’t.  Anyway it was a Good Day and nice to meet the new baby of the family. (Luke had been in the role for 23 years which is quite long enough isn’t it?  Some of us [me] only got 24 months in the role).

I have been enjoying the company of the museum (and all those who sail within her) in the last week-or-so.  Sometimes it feels as though I slip between the university and the museum but in the last few days it hasn’t felt that way at all.  I am quite hopeful again.  Funny this PhD lark. 

It is exciting to see the new stuff start to take shape, even though there is still so much time until it opens.  I wonder how much I can say on here about it?  Probably not that much… 

It is an incredible view from here, at the join of theory and material.  I’m looking at how the plans and ideas have changed and now how they are becoming material entities.  It’ll be fascinating too, of course, to look at in what ways they will re-emerge when the gallery opens and peopple look around.  But right now I am watching as five years of thought is becoming concrete (literally sometimes). 

On Thursday I saw 17,000 dead people.  At first I was shocked that there were so many, that the museum held them.  And then I realised that the earth must be so full of bones…

“…But is the

earth as full as life was full, of them?”  

 from the lovely Frank O’Hara’s lovely ‘A Step Away From Them’.

On the (very short) journey between St Pauls and the museum I have been finding things.  So far I have found a bird – which I think was a woodcock, but they’re pretty rare (according to the RSPB’s lovely bird identifier) so it’s rather a shame it was dead.  I also found one stiletto.  I don’t know what I’ll find tomorrow.  It feels like the start of a mysterious story (which perhaps it is).

On Saturday I shall flit to Nottingham with luke and dad to graduate from Michael Parkinson.  If it was a mystery novel it would be a bit of a silly one wouuldn’t it?

I know it is good to get out of your comfort zone.  But 550 miles up to an academic conference in Edinburgh felt like a million miles more.  Going up there and hearing from other students just made me think I’ll never make it to present my work like they have if I have to go alone.

I’ve had three weekends in a row of lovely visits and on Monday night Luke and William walked through the rain to stick me on the train to Scotland (well, the train to get the tube to get the train to Scotland).  

I am a bear of very little brain and I found the whole conference-episode both intimidating and akward.  I can neither abide nor actually do small talk so the whole affair passed in phases of bewilderment, shyness, frustration and lonliness, interspersed with a few good conversations which it would be dreadfully rude not to acknowledge.

I don’t remember ever feeling quite so shy or so out of my depth, though I’m sure I must have.  The nagging feeling that the whole PhD malarkey isn’t quite for me doesn’t seem to be going away as the weeks pass.  I feel quite fraudulent.  I feel very stupid.  I feel inartculate and my only comfort (PhD-wise) comes from talking about these feelings.  Aside from the uni stuff things don’t feel so bad – in fact they don’t feel bad at all. 

At the moment I have no plans to chuck the PhD in.  I have heard a couple of utterings from other people about how lonely and isolating the PhD process can be and how it has seen people end up on anti-depressents.  So bailing out now is really before the going gets tough isn’t it?  And it may get better, it may get worse.  Also it’s not really an option because I’ll have to give back a whole bunch of money I’ve already spent.  Also I am stubborn. 

At the moment it feels like this little Miles girl might not be able to spend three years like this.

Going into a geography department everyone said things like ‘oh, don’t worry about that, it’s so multi-disciplinary’.  But I feel so far behind – I don’t even have a geography GCSE.  I don’t know what quaternary geography is (or how to spell it) i don’t know what the CEDAR group does, or postcolonial geographies, or subaltern geograohies, or historical geography, or the geographies of historical geography.  I don’t know the difference between space and place and landscape.  I don’t know ANY OF IT - I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING.  i am a fraud and i can’t do it.  People say, ‘oh, you’re lucky to come to the subject with fresh eyes’ but it’s so very intimidating.  A fact not helped by the unfriendliness of some and the posturing of some more.

In the past I have been so lucky to have had so much support from everyone else.  From Luke’s dogged determination to drag me through my A level exams, to Chloe sending me links to readings and essays, to the people I have whinged to, argued with, told me to get my act together, to everyone I have drunk and danced with.  None of my achievements have been done solely alone, and I wouldn’t wish them any other way.  The cold sensation I’m feeling now is that this ‘collaborative PhD’ seems nothing of the sort, it seems like it’s going to be very lonely journey. 

Luke and Will putting me on the train I guess becomes some heady analogy for another day’s writing up.